Monday, September 24, 2012

Saturday, February 26, 2011

14 Aura Colors as Identified by Dr. Barbara Bowers

In her book What Color Is Your Aura?, Dr. Barbara Bowers noticed that there were 14 personality patterns, each having different strengths. She grouped them into 4 families:

Physical Family
Physical (environment) Colors Red, Orange, and Magenta
Physical (body) Colors Yellow and Physical Tan

Mental Family
Mental Colors Mental Tan, Green, Nurturing Tan, and Loving Tan

Emotional Family
Emotional Colors Lavender, Blue

Spiritual Family
Spiritual Colors Violet, Indigo, Crystal

Physical Family

Red
-You prefer working at jobs that are physically demanding.
-For you, sex is physical pleasure.
-When you lose your temper, you get over it quickly.
-If you have enough money to buy the necessities, you are happy.
-When playing a team sport, you rally the team when the chips are down.
-You experience spirituality when you physically participate in the worship service.
-You want to know how and why things work the way they do.

Orange
-When faced with a dangerous task, you carefully plan how to handle any crisis that may arise.
-You meet physical challenges without fear.
-You prefer activities that allow you to demonstrate physical prowess.
-You prefer individual competition rather than team effort.
-You are not interested in organized religion or other belief systems.
-You prefer to work for a comission, or even as a freelancer, rather than for a regular, fixed salary.
-You do not need friends or social interactions to be happy.

Magenta
-You seek the unusual or avante-garde.
-You are a non-conformist.
-You are a spontaneous person.
-You are attracted to products that have unusual or unexpected design features.
-You form loose friendships that are not encumbered with bonds of expectation.
-When you see something that you like, you choose to have your fantasy now and pay later.
-You express your spirituality through your strong connection to nature.

Yellow
-You react physically (with sweaty palms, for example) before you respond to a situation mentally or emotionally.
-When you find yourself in a tense situation, you want to run away or pretend it does not exist.
-You are not cynical.
-You experience God as the physical sensation of the joy of being alive.
-You like parties.
-You lead others with enthusiasm because you enjoy being with people.
-You enjoy working in occupations that require physical activity.

Physical Tan
-You are a loner.
-You are slow to choose friends.
-You ev-You are slow to choose friends.
-You evaluate objects by how solid or substantial they feel.
-You are slow to commit to any belief system.
-You are meticulous in following instructions given to you by your supervisor.
-You believe that to be a good leader, you must first be a good follower.
-To you, money represents physical safety and stability.

Mental Family

Mental Tan
-You are methodical in your thinking.
-As a leaer, you solicit lots of detailed information from others in order to make decisions.
-You have difficulty sharing your emotions and feelings with others.
-You like social activities that combine business and pleasure.
-You prefer a spiritual belief system that relies on a foundation of laws and principles.
-To you, money is security.
-You enjoy working with mechanical devices such as computers, calculators, and stereo equipment.

Green
-You resent emotional and domestic demands made on you.
-You prefer occupations that have unlimited financial opportunity, such as sales.
-You diagnose problems by recognizing patterns.
-You see God as the "brain" that created the universe.
-You prefer a few specially chosen friends who stimulate you intellectually.
-You find great satisfaction in assisting people by giving ideas and information.
-To you, ideas are things, not mental abstractions.

Nurturing Tan
-You are not judgmental or critical of the ways in which others express their emotions or feelings.
-You organize projects by creating systems.
-You look for ways to improve your community.
-You feel that raising a well-educated child is the greatest contribution you can make to your community.
-You financially support community groups and programs that benefit society.
-You feel that spiritual principles must have practical application in the real world.
-You lead others by incorporating their feelings into the decision-making process.

Loving Tan
-When solving problems, you are able to visualize all the steps and the solution at the same time.
-You do not require emotional loyalty to effectively mentor someone.
-You are attracted to religions with strong theological structures that allow for personal interpretation.
-You eagerly seek to please those you love and care about.
-You prefer social gatherings where you have an opportunity to talk to many different people.
-You have difficulty managing money effectively.
-You have difficulty keeping track of personal possessions.

Emotional Family

Lavender
-Esoteric spiritual or political philosophies have great emotional and intellectual appeal to you.
-When you have money, you spend it; when you don't, you don't.
-You are a dreamer who likes to live in the fantasies you create.
-You express your sexuality creatively, intuitively, and experimentally.
-Your artistic pursuits often keep you indoors.
-You prefer a somewhat isolated existence rather than one in which you would have to conform to society's expectations.
-You see ideas as three-dimensional patterns.

Blue
-You cry easily.
-You have a hard time saying no when someone asks you to do them a favor.
-The experience of God's love is the spiritual force in your life.
-When looking for a job, you have difficulty asking for the salary you deserve.
-You feel more comfortable sharing the leadership by being a co-chairperson.
-You do not enjoy endurance sports such as cross-country skiing or weight-lifting.
-When making a decision, you try to find a solution that will please everyone.

Spiritual Family

Violet
-You have a strong inner desire to make your mark on the world.
-Social get-togethers such as cocktail parties bore you.
-You would rather be the theorist of a project, and leave the building of the working model to someone else.
-You are not "free and easy" when spending money on others.
-You lead by telling people what to do.
-You feel compelled to do something significant with your life.
-Possessions are important to you as stepping-stones to power and influence.

Crystal
-You are at ease in any environment where healing is the primary activity or occupation.
-You depend on other people for clues on how you should act in various social situations.
-You rarely show your deepest feeligs.
-You enjoy reading biographies and diaries that describe the lives of real people.
-Your source of personal power is your ability to mentally retreat inward.
-You prefer quiet, introspective, spiritual disciplines.
-You work best in an environment that is calm and peaceful with limited contact with othes.

Indigo
-You have no biases about sexuality--heterosexuality, bisexuality, homosexuality.
-In school, you learn most effectively in an unstructured environment.
-You lead by forcing others to rethink and reexamine old beliefs, values, and ways of doing things.
-You perceive spirituality to be in everything you do.
-You need to be awakened slowly from a sound sleep to avoid being irritable or in physical pain.
-You cannot be coerced into doing something in which you are not interested. -You are content to work with your hand

Three Happiness Factors

When you think of being happy, you probably think about external factors in your life, such as having a comfortable place to live, money to fund your lifestyle, and more. While those things can certainly contribute to a greater sense of well-being and contentment, they rarely create happiness on their own.
Rather, genuine happiness is usually the result of less tangible factors. Below you’ll find three of the major factors that can help you to create a life of true joy and happiness, regardless of the state of your outer circumstances:
• Purpose
A seemingly aimless existence often leads to an increased sense of emptiness and dissatisfaction in all areas of your life. On the other hand, when you believe that your life has purpose and meaning, you automatically experience greater focus, vitality and happiness. Your life purpose doesn’t have to be a major “calling” like becoming a nun or missionary; you can find purpose in any kind of situation! Make it your purpose to have a fulfilling career in any field, or set a benchmark of achievement for your children to exceed someday. Choose a cause that is important to you and devote your life to supporting it. Ultimately it doesn’t matter what purpose you choose for your life; just that it’s important to you.
• Self-love
True happiness and contentment must be accompanied by genuine self-love. When you truly love and respect yourself, everything seems to run more smoothly in your life. You get along better with others, you feel stronger and more balanced, and you don’t tend to take challenges so personally. Rather than seeking love and acceptance from others, give it to yourself! Speak kindly to yourself and build yourself up as often as you can. The more you do, the happier you’ll feel.
• Confidence
Confidence makes you feel more in control of your life, which cannot help but make you feel happier too. Not only are you better able to stand up for yourself and avoid being taken advantage of; confidence also helps you to believe in yourself and your capabilities, which gives you the power and determination to create a truly happy and fulfilling life.
There are other factors that contribute to greater happiness, but these three are probably the most pervasive. Simply by fostering these three qualities in yourself and your life, you’ll begin to shift toward a more purposeful, gentle, fulfilling and empo

factors of healthy life

Happiness is the one thing most of us seek after and for many it remains a lifelong quest. Chances are you want to be happy all the time but that is unlikely to happen. But what if you could attain consistent and sustained happiness most of the time, wouldn’t that be great? What if you could unlock those critical factors that would bring you increased happiness in your life.
Happiness means different things to different people, for some it is the attainment of a life goal or contributing to the lives of others. Can you remember at time when you were truly happy, when you had a feeling of total joy and you were yourself throughout the process? Do you remember what that felt like and how everything and everyone around was affected?
When you increase your level of happiness you will be improving your relationships, health, energy levels, productivity and at the same time reduce the impact of those negative forces on our lives.
Here are the ten critical factors of happiness:
· Core values and beliefs. Your values guide your every decision and by extension your destiny. Your beliefs determine whether or not you will attain that destiny. Knowing your values and beliefs and living by them is the ultimate way to live and the main door to achieving greater happiness in your life. To know what your core values are ask yourself “What’s most important to me in life?” to believe in something is to have a sense of certainty about it. To create this sense of certainty you should search your mind for the experience s you’ve had in the past and use them to support that idea.
· Taking action. Inaction is one sure way to kill any happiness you may have quickly if not instantly. In order to live by your values and beliefs you must take action to do so your happiness demands it. Never give consul to fear indecision, laziness or frustration immobilize you. Work through those negative forces and up you confidence level and live in a manner that reflects your desire to be happy. Get up and get out there and do it.
· Goals. Many people are unhappy because they do not set goals. You must set new goals for yourself and do something each day towards it’s attainment. No matter how small they might be, set them anyway and work at achieving them. Make sure your goals are what you want them to be and no one else’s, the worst thing in life is to live it doing what others say you must do.
· Gratitude. Be thankful for everything in live that you have. Yes you must give God thanks for all that you now experience and pray that you will do better as time goes by.
· Expand your mind with learning. Work constantly to engage your brain by trying to learn more. Be interested in learning new things and open up your mind to new ways of seeing things.
· Key yourself healthy. One major part of happiness is good health so never ever do anything that will jeopardize your health. Do what you must to be healthy and stay that way it will benefit you for years to come. Be aware of what your body is telling you when something is wrong and have it checked out.
· Positive influence on others. One of the happiest feelings you can have in life is knowing that you are a positive influence on someone’s life. Many people are in search of real role models and leaders. When you are a positive influence you will have the opportunity to get ahead in life.
· Dream big. Do not get caught up in what is going on right now, that’s not the true reality, live life on your own terms. Always keep in mind that it is possible to live your dreams so dream big dreams.
· Take a break. Many people get so caught up in living life and getting by that they end up burning themselves out. You must realize that you need to take a break and take some time to yourself so that you can serve yourself and others better.
· Keep moving forward. Be careful whom you listen to on a day-to-day basis. Give attention to those who will support and help you don’t listen to those that will put you down. Focus on moving forward and let no one stop you

Saturday, December 12, 2009

A happy life doesn't mean everythin around u is perfect..
It means choosing 2 b happy inspite of knowin d fact that life can never b perfect;-)

Monday, June 16, 2008

Love is when grandmother is unable to paint her toe nails as she can't bend and grandfather paints them for her inspite of his backache.
Dats d true luv !~!~!